It’s holiday card season! And many families want to capture that perfect moment with their new baby. But unless you’re a seasoned veteran in front of the camera, it can feel intimidating. I’ve gathered a few tips to help make a shoot feel more approachable.

Hire a Pro: Often times people skimp here and think that their IPhone can take a good enough photo. Trust me, it doesn’t. A self timer won’t be able to capture the moments the way a trained professional can. I had to talk my husband in hiring a photographer for our elopement and in the end he was so happy that we did! So just like your wedding, your first weeks/ months with your newborn won’t be repeated and will fly by in a (poop filled) blur.

When looking for the right photographer for you, I recommend asking around for suggestions. Friends and family may know someone that they have shot with. Check out their portfolio of work and see if their style fits with what you have in mind. I personally prefer a photojournalist style over more staged portraits when shooting with my family because they feel more at ease, leading to better photos!.

Create a theme or style. This can be accomplished with a color palette that compliments the backdrop or if you’re like me and love a matching family outfit you can go that route too. I dressed my entire extended family in matching pajamas for a shoot. They laughed at first but loved it later! (We did shoot in regular clothes too.) For a color palette theme you can mix and match pieces within a tone rather than completely matching. This allows for diversity and visual interest in the photo. Really stuck on wardrobe? You can hire a stylist to help you out. My friend, Liz Teich, offers a virtual styling service and can shop online for you and even put the looks together.

Ask the photographer for tips: Plan ahead and have a chat with your photographer. They may have tips to share to help you feel and look your best. After all, they have done this a lot more than you have and can let you know what works and what doesn’t. Family photographers are great with little kids as well, with tips to draw out those sweet smiles snd getting them to look at the camera one of my favorites is Michelle Rose, who always has a cute monkey on her lens to keep the little engaged

Act natural! You don’t always have to stare down the barrel of the lens. Look off camera as well snd engage with your baby and family.

If you’re uncomfortable smiling, practice in the mirror ahead of time. You can practice moving your body in front of the mirror too but don’t get too caught up on posing.

Bribery

If you’re shooting with a toddler, bring a high value item to keep them engaged that doesn’t haven’t to be a treat like a lollipop (but could be!) or a favorite toy. If you have a newborn, having a noisy toy that jingles or makes music can help to get their attention. Have the photographer or other parent it or near or behind the photographer to get them looking up! If you’re shooting your toddler, don’t promise the bribe if you’re not ready to hand it over! I made the mistake of bringing a balloon but he didn’t get it right away and tears ensued!

Have fun, smile and share any tips you pick up along the way!